It is an absolute joy to meet with couples and to hear your stories. I could (and do) sit for hours listening to the tales of first meetings, proposals, near misses, and that time you broke your leg and your other half had to carry you down the stairs. I adore hearing what people love and admire most about each other and the funny stories about what just drives you nuts about them.
For me, this is a key part of the process and one I’m told I do really well. We are getting to know one another while I am gathering material for the ceremony script; we are likely to laugh a lot and maybe shed a few tears too. (If you are looking for a celebrant who is purely there to be professional and objective, I am probably not the one for you. My heart comes with me to this work and for me, it is all based on the relationship we form).
I’m available to help you with selecting readings, music, and writing vows or promises that will be made. I can help you think of beautiful symbolic elements that add meaning and texture to your ceremony. If you want to write your own words, I am supportive and understanding when you don’t get them to me by Friday, as you promised! But I will give you a nudge and encouragement when you feel stuck and need to work through a creative block.
And when it comes to the Big Day, I promise I will give you a ceremony that is truly personal, sings of your love, and buzzes with joyful energy. It is one of my greatest joys to hold space for people and ensure everyone in the room feels part of something special, with the two of you at the heart of it all.