£3000 - £8800 for Venue Hire
Up to 123
13 Bedrooms
Exclusive Use
Wedding Licence
COVID-19 Update
We are very excited to share with you that we are now open for visits - while of course working within government guidelines. Due to restrictions we will only be able to do one visit at a time in each venue. We thus expect the waiting list for visits to be rather longer than usual. We’re implementing a range of safety measures to ensure we fully comply with all social distancing guidelines and to ensure you feel reassured at your visit. Alternatively, we would be more than happy to arrange a “virtual” tour for you, where one of our team can talk you through our virtual venue tour, discuss your ideas, and talk you through a bespoke quote via Skype.
Cain Manor boasts romance, rustic style and English countryside charm and is the perfect venue country house wedding venue on the border of Surrey and Hampshire.
Pricing & Costs

Venue Hire Only

Prices Start At
Maximum Price
Exclusive use of the house and grounds, planning support and on-the-day management. Plus all venue essentials such as chairs, tables, linen, cutlery, glasses, microphones, cake table, table plan etc.
What is included in this pricing:
External caterers not permitted
Furniture included
Couple accommodation included
Exclusive use
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Non consumables (e.g. linen, lights etc.)

In-house catering
(price per head)

Prices Start At
Includes canapés, reception drinks, 3 course wedding breakfast with wine and mineral water, a glass to toast, and an evening buffet, plus all service.
Features & Capacity


Venue Type
Dining Capacity
Reception Capacity
No. of Bedrooms
Sleeps No. of People
Bridal Suite
Honeymoon Suite
Usual Access Time
11:00 AM
Late Night Extension

Ceremony & Reception

Sound System Available
Dancefloor Available
Outdoor Ceremony Available
Confetti Permitted
Wedding Licence

Food and Drink

Asian Catering
In-House Wine List
In-house Catering
Halal Catering
Alcohol Licence
Kosher Catering


Landscaped Gardens
Exclusive Use
Bridal Changing Facilities
Disabled Access
On-Site Parking
Outdoor Reception Space
In-House Wedding Coordinator
Full Description
Cain Manor is a dream barn wedding venue located on the border of Hampshire and Surrey. Cain Manor is an exclusive use wedding venue with 13 luxury on-site bedrooms for overnight guests to enjoy. An in-house catering team will ensure that your wedding banquet is none other than spectacular, and a specialist Wedding Planning Management Team will ensure that no stone is left unturned when your wedding day finally arrives. Couples can choose to get married inside or out at Cain Manor, and the beautiful Music Room can hold up to 123 guests for a ceremony and multi-course banquet - carefully prepared by a brigade of expert banqueting chefs. During the evening, a total of 170 guest can enjoy the dance floor, bar, grounds and oak-beamed reception space that this luxury barn wedding venue provides. Cain Manor is a must-see barn wedding venue and The Bijou Team welcome you to visit the venue at a time convenient to you.


Year Business Was Established
No. of Weddings Hosted
More than 50
Adam Gibbs
Married in May 2020
September 2020
20% discount - for no wedding!
After my experience, I'd like to simply suggest potential customers google some of the following media stories- which all name this company (and I'm in some of the stories). This is by no means an exhaustive list of their recent coverage. 1) 'Which' website - 'Couples jilted at altar by wedding venues cancelling big day – and pocketing their cash' 2) BBC website - ''Our wedding is cancelled but we still have to pay' 3) BBC One Show "Watchdog - Weddings" 4) Guardian - "Cancelled weddings – refusal to issue refund may be breach of law" 5) Surrey live - "Couple 'heartbroken' after Bijou Weddings cancels big day and asks for 80% cancellation fee" As a statement of fact, Bijou still have £13,000 of my money for a wedding in May 2020, that they cancelled, and will not refund us. Adam French, the Senior Consumer rights editor for 'Which', confirmed on ITV news on 26 May 2020 that "as part of this investigation, we have passed on the details of 12 venues - including the Bijou Group - to the regulator (The Competition and Markets Authority" for further investigation'. Those organisations working in customer services would do well to consider that their reputation is a more valuable long term asset than any bank balance which has been inflated - based on what what some might think to be deliberate contractual ambiguity. Of course, we were presumably all supposed to know from the outset that Bijou could cancel our wedding and charge us 80% of the total cost!
Anna & James
Married in October 2019
August 2020
Everything we wanted and more
Firstly we want to say an absolutely massive thank you ! Our wedding day last Sunday at Cain Manor was totally perfect, our guests all loved the venue and are still raving about the food, please pass on our thanks to the chef. Your staff were all so professional and the day ran so smoothly. Special thanks must go to Sienna, Emily and Jonny – they all worked tirelessly to make our day everything we wanted and more. Please pass them all our thanks.
Liza & Neil
Married in September 2019
August 2020
Nothing was too much trouble
Ann, We had a really lovely day and wanted to say a huge thank you to you and your team for making everything in the run up and on the day go so smoothly. Dean was amazing, nothing was too much trouble on the day and he made me feel very relaxed and calm! My family also said he was lovely! We had really lovely comments on the venue and on the food especially! How amazing the food was and that everyone was so happy that the portion sizes were normal compared to other weddings they had been to! Thank you again to you and your team for always answering my endless questions and your help with the planning!
April & Jonathan
Married in June 2019
August 2020
We are all still on cloud 9!
Thank you to all the team at Bijou (huge thanks to Dean). Our day was incredibly special and we are all still on cloud 9! The professional attitude of all staff was noted by all guests and you all went the extra mile in insuring that our day was faultless from start to finish! We would highly recommend Cain Manor to anybody and it will always hold a special place in our hearts.
Mother of the Bride - Carol
Wedding: May 2019
August 2020
Cain Manor was the perfect venue
We had a wonderful day and I am sure Katy & Matt will be in touch on their return from honeymoon. We could not have wished for more – many guests were saying it was the best wedding they have ever been to, which obviously made us very happy indeed. Dean and his team were so professional, kind and friendly at all times. Nothing was too much trouble for them. Once again thanks to all at Bijou HQ especially Maddie, who never kept us waiting when we had a query or were unsure about something – it made us feel so comfortable that Cain Manor was the perfect venue for Katy & Matt. Now, unfortunately, back to reality!
Anna and James
Married in May 2019
January 2019
Totally perfect!
Our wedding day last Sunday at Cain Manor was totally perfect. Our guests all loved the venue and are still raving about the food - please pass on our thanks to the chef. Your staff were all so professional and the day ran so smoothly.
Location & Contact Details


Churt Road, Headley Down, Hampshire, GU35 8SR, England

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What is your No. 1 wedding planning tip for couples?

Choose the wedding venue you truly fall in love with - and we're not just talking about the bricks and mortar. We're talking about the grounds, the staff, the banquet room, the menus....the works. When you look back at your wedding photography and videos in years to come, you'll realise that you made a great decision.

What’s your favourite personal touch you’ve seen at a wedding?

Fairy lights add sparkle and a romantic vibe to our Music Room. Recently, a couple went all-out and dressed the cathedral length window from top to bottom with a curtain of fairy lights. One word - MAGICAL!

Describe your venue in 5 adjectives.

Cosy - Romantic - Rustic - Stylish - Charming

Where’s the best photo spot at your venue?

Cain Manor boasts spectacular garden views over what is known as Surrey's Golden Valley. Therefore any wedding photography taken in the garden will have the most incredible back drop.

Have you had any celebrity guest or wedding at your venue?

We're lucky enough to welcome celebrity guests to Cain Manor on a frequent basis.

What’s your favourite canapé?

Our brigade of chefs are always perfecting our menus and producing creative, palate pleasing dishes. We love to indulge, so one of our favourite canapé bites are our Roasted Hampshire Venison served on a potato scone with redcurrant jelly - delicious!

What’s your favourite midnight treat?

If we're not nibbling on fresh popcorn from our retro popcorn machines, you'll find us over at the chocolate fountain dipping sweet treats in to the melted chocolate.

What is your venue's most unique feature?

The Music Room at Cain Manor is our wow-factor. When we show couples around Cain Manor we always hear a 'oh my goodness' or an exhilarating sigh, having walked in to The Music Room and realising that the dream could actually turn in to a reality, here in this room. Its wonderful!

What part of your business are you most proud of?

The Bijou Team help make it all happen for our couples. Regardless of what happens behind the scenes, we always ensure that couples feel like their wedding is the only wedding ever to have taken place at Cain Manor. It's pretty special. Come and meet us to find out how we can help you plan a dream wedding.