Up to 150
25 Bedrooms
Exclusive Use
Wedding Licence
Gray Manor is a unique boutique wedding venue and hotel set in the heart of the countryside on the Hampshire/ Wiltshire border.
Pricing & Costs
Features & Capacity


Venue Type
Dining Capacity
Reception Capacity
No. of Bedrooms
Sleeps No. of People
Bridal Suite
Honeymoon Suite
Usual Access Time
Usual Finish Time

Ceremony & Reception

Sound System Available
Wedding Licence
Dancefloor Available
Outdoor Ceremony Available
Confetti Permitted


Exclusive Use
Marquee Permitted
Disabled Access
On-Site Parking
In-House Wedding Coordinator
Bridal Changing Facilities
Outdoor Reception Space

Food and Drink

External Catering Permitted
In-house Catering
Alcohol Licence
Full Description
Our team have a wealth of experience in the wedding industry. Everyone from your wedding co-ordinator, who will assist you in the planning of your special day, to the chef who will create a menu to delight all of your guests, right down to the function manager who is on hand to run your day and make it more perfect then you ever thought possible, the whole team are here to make your day the most memorable of your lives. Set in five acres of beautiful countryside and with a complete refurbishment throughout the venue, this is a truly special place to host your wedding reception. We believe every wedding is special and unique and can help design a bespoke day, to make it a truly one off occasion, that yourself and all your guests will remember forever. Because the wedding venue is new, we have some great opening offers and you will have the benefit of a perfect combination of a completely fresh beautiful setting, with a fully experienced team with vast knowledge of the wedding industry, all for an introductory price. Brand new unique boutique wedding venue in Wiltshire Dedicated wedding team with a wealth of experience Set in five acres of beautiful countryside Recently completely refurbished Great introductory offers available Ceremony licence


Year Business Was Established
No. of Weddings Hosted
More than 50
Public Liability Insurance
Gray manor hotel
Wedding: December 2018
May 2018
Mr Jordan daniels
Great company, always help with delivery's , free coffee and biscuits 👍🏻, and never late payment. Keep it up.
Wedding: November 2018
November 2018
quantock wines
A splendid venue very helpful and always there to answer all questions. we have been supplying a selection of good affordable wines that the manor relies on the quality
Jason Bawa
Wedding: November 2018
November 2018
The best wedding venue to work with.
I work for many wedding venues and gray manor has be to the best. They're always welcoming and always welling to lend a hand. All my clients are always wowwed by Gray Manor. Gray Manor is by far my most favorite venue to work with.
William Stapleton
Wedding: November 2018
December 2018
Excellent Stay
Stayed the 1 night for a wedding. Very warm and inviting, friendly helpful staff that work hard to make you feel part of the 'Gray Manor' family. Amazing help yourself breakfast selection, with fruit, yoghurts, juices, cereals and huge cooked selection. Will make this a regular place to stay. Wedding was fantastic all the way through, the attention to detail was exemplary.
Lisa Drewett
Married in October 2018
November 2018
Best day ever
We got married here and I honestly can't fault it. What a fantastic venue. Eli, Jason and the team were awesome and helped the big day run smoothly and couldn't do enough to help in the run up. We had nothing but compliments all day from our guests about the staff, the food and the hotel itself. I would highly recommend.
Dave & Debby
Married in October 2018
November 2018
Amazing wedding venue
We had our wedding reception here at the gray manor on 13th October 2018 and it’s an amazing venue. Eli , Jason, Lex and the team are so friendly and helpful nothing was too much. From the planning of the reception they were always so helpful answering any questions we had or if we just needed to pop over to discuss any of the planning it was never to much trouble. The reception was amazing everything went so smoothly and the food was great which all our guests commented on what a great venue it was and there still talking about it now. Would 100% recommend the gray manor for a wedding venue. Thank you so much for making our wedding day so special.
Location & Contact Details


Park House Cross, Cholderton, Hampshire, SP4 0EG, England

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Describe the best wedding that happened at your venue?

Every wedding is special to us, but probably one of the most unique and memorable has to be a recent Vegas themed wedding of our two very handsome grooms Dan and Liam. The couple had actually got married in a helicopter above the Las Vegas strip in secret, so whilst the guests thought they were attending the ceremony, it was actually a screening of their wedding. They had cinema tickets on entrance and popcorn for guests. It was revealed on a big screen and they had guests up singing the YMCA in the middle of the ceremony! They then went on to have a casino and a surprise flash mob at the wedding! It was definitely a day to remember!

What is your No. 1 wedding planning tip for couples?

Don't forget what it's all about! It is so easy to get caught up in the details of the day, but try not to forget why you are getting married in the first place. Committing to the person you love, surrounded by those you love is far more special then any detail you can think of. Remember you can't please everyone, the day is about you and your partner, so focus on that and the love you have for eachother and everything else will naturally fall into place!

What’s your favourite personal touch you’ve seen at a wedding?

We are a lover of the furry friend at Gray Manor, so a couple who had their dogs dressed in a tux and walking down the aisle made us all warm and fuzzy inside!

Describe your venue in 5 adjectives.

Quirky unique family run personal flexible

Where’s the best photo spot at your venue?

It has to be our secret garden. A colourful spot full of character, set in our grounds, where we have seen some of the most special and unique photos!

Have you had any celebrity guest or wedding at your venue?

Yes Kate Winslet organised an event at our venue!

What’s your favourite canapé?

Fillet steak stroganoff is a firm favourite amongst our team.

What’s your favourite midnight treat?

We can have a day of gourmet food and the best wines.... but when it hits midnight, you cannot beat a good old fashioned bacon bap! With a bit of brown sauce, it always hits the spot especially after a few drinks! The best bit is, you don't even have to stop dancing to eat it!

What is your venue's most unique feature?

We always get comments on our secret garden and the secret garden sums up the heart of the business! Unique, different and personal, we embrace each and every wedding idea!

What part of your business are you most proud of?

The personality and heart of our business! We are family run and all of our team have become extended family members. Each wedding is genuinely special to us and we are so proud that our entire team will always go above and beyond to make the day as special and as memorable as possible. We love getting to know our couples, what makes them happy, what makes them smile and then doing our best to keep that smile on their face for every second of the day. Because we are family run, we don't have the same rules and rigid structure in place as a lot of venues, so we are able to offer our couples the freedom to have their day exactly as they pictured it. We actively encourage them to become lord and lady for the day and treat Gray Manor as their very own manor house!